divorce advice for women

money in divorce

3 BIG Ways Your Money Stories Are Sabotaging Your Divorce

Believe it or not, your beliefs around money have a HUGE impact on the outcome of your divorce … so make sure they’re the right ones! You use money, need money, interact with money … every day … but, do you LOVE money? Your relationship with money has deep seated roots in your subconscious and…
divorce mediation

6 Things You Need To Know About Divorce Mediation

If you’re getting divorced, here’s what you need to know about mediation to make better decisions.

I recently attended a 40-hour divorce mediation training. Forty hours is the requirement in my state to practice as a divorce mediator. That’s not why I did it though. As a divorce coach, many of my clients are going through mediation and I wanted to support them as best as possible during the process. I truly believe that mediation is a better way to “do” divorce. And I believe that because I walked out of my first mediation meeting and never went back.

casual sex

What Casual Sex Can Teach You After A Divorce

If you lost yourself in your marriage, a fun fling after your divorce can introduce you to … YOU again! She was 40 and had just initiated her divorce. He was 28 and single. They met at a business conference and spent one crazy night together before heading back to their respective lives. She had…
controlling ex

Divorce a Controlling Ex and Find Your Voice

Leave the fear and intimidation behind to focus on what’s most important. I’ll call her Janet. She spent years of her life married to a man who used emotional abuse to control her. When she had her epiphany and filed for divorce, he threatened her and swore he would take everything that she cherished, including…
feelings

6 Surprising Feelings You’re Going To Have About Your Divorce

Anger at your ex? Sure, that’s a given. But hope, elation or even nostalgia? Now those are some unexpected feelings. Don’t worry: They’re all totally normal. I still don’t know what to do with my rings now that I’m divorced. Every now and again, I still like to dig them out from where I had…
welcome box

Divorce Can Be The Best Decision You’ve Ever Made

Is your marriage shackling you to an unfulfilled life? How many years have you been allowing what you don’t like in your marriage? And how many compromises have you made that just didn’t feel good? I’m not talking about leaving the toilet seat up or the toothpaste cap off. I’m talking about where you wanted…
gay marriage

Gay Marriage And Divorce: LGBT Love

Gay marriage is marriage – with everything that comes with it… including divorce. If you’re in an LGBT union and considering a permanent split, here’s what you need to know. Not too long ago, while driving in the car, my 5-year old son told me about two of his classmates that got “married” at recess.…
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