Divorcing A Narcissist?
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Divorce is a fear-inducing, soul-crushing and gut-wrenching transition in your life. And as a woman who owns your own business … or works in Corporate America … then the emotional, legal, financial AND professional impact of your divorce will be much greater … quite simply, because you have more to lose.
As a professional woman, the impact is not just on your marriage and your lifestyle, but also on your career and financial future. This is the time to step into your leadership, your power, and create the life you want … without letting divorce cripple you, your bank account or your business. As a divorce coach and mediator, I help you successfully navigate the emotional, legal and financial aspects of divorce, as well as avoid the many pitfalls that accompany this process.
Work with me … before, during or after your divorce … to gain the knowledge, tools and support you need to minimize the impact of divorce on your emotional, physical and spiritual well-being … as well as on your family and professional career. The impact of coaching will not only help you save valuable time, money and sanity in the divorce process … but also support your growth and evolution as a leader in your career and industry.
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“After I left my ex and moved out of the house and before I found Laura I didn’t even know that divorce coaches existed. Following a few therapy sessions, I googled looking for a life coach as I really wanted to move forward fast. Soon I realized that, unfortunately, it wasn’t possible, I had to face the stages of grief as I was still very much in love with my ex and I also had to start my new life. It was overwhelming and extremely painful at times. Laura gave me hope. She held my hand in the first 7 months and I couldn’t have done it without her. I’m still going through the divorce process, but it’s not as challenging as it was at the beginning. I needed someone who knew the ins and outs of the process as I was lost, cut off from the circle of our friends (which was my choice) and my family overseas. The only thing I knew was that no matter what, I had to keep my grace and dignity. It was so challenging at times as I was subjected to numerous manipulations from my ex, but Laura helped me see the bigger picture when all I could sometimes see was the fog. I am deeply grateful for her support, understanding and patience, unlimited email support (which was invaluable) and for her professionalism throughout the process. In addition, Laura helped me with my career and marketing for my new business. Divorce is a huge life changing event and it has its challenges. We can’t do it alone. Family and friends give us the support, but no one really fully understands the pain that it brings like Laura, who has been there herself and has a passion to help us get through to the other side and become even stronger and more independent. My divorce has changed me as a person and with Laura’s help, I found myself again. I would recommend Laura to anyone who wants to turn divorce into a positive event in their lives, no matter how difficult and challenging it is at the start of the process. It has so many learning curves and lessons and Laura is very good at identifying them and helping you grow..” — Lijana
“Laura was invaluable in helping me to get through my divorce in a graceful and amicable way. I was terrified of the process, which seemed impossible and overwhelming, and I was scared of my ex and how he would act/react during the process. Laura helped me stay strong in myself and stay present, breaking the divorce process down into manageable “next steps” to be accomplished one by one. She also gave me infinite support in loving myself through the process. Since my divorce, she has continued to be an amazing resource in my job search, my new relationship, and dealing with my ex.” — Leslie
“Coaching with Laura was meant to be! I had never even heard of a coach. I had met Laura at a workshop, chatted a bit and when I took her business card I made sure I put it in my wallet so I would not lose it. That phone call was the best way to start 2014 which I vowed would be my year to get this divorce done. I had been separated for a few years and living in limbo. I was “stuck” in my life about how to handle my divorce and my life. I put off all the major decisions, living like a robot with the day to day routines; procrastination was my middle name. The tools Laura has taught me work and I am using them. My captain & crew are inside me now and it feels good to “talk” and “listen” to them. I sure do make them work hard. I have learned things about myself that have been dormant for years. I am excited about my new adventure in life! The word “Moxie” is awesome!” — Pat
“Talking to you in our consultation really gave me the validation that it was OK to feel the way that I did about getting a divorce. And you also showed me a strength that I didn’t realize I had. Thank you again for reminding me of the empowerment I have inside. You are truly a blessing to me.” — Omeshia
“I came to Laura not knowing what to expect. I was miserable in my marriage and I knew I needed something (someone?) to help me finally make a decision about what to do. I came across a blog post of hers and called her the same day. I knew I wasn’t going to be able to get through this process on my own. When you are thinking about divorce, it’s like deciding to leave everything you know and enter into some kind of strange, dark abyss where everything is mysterious—possibly horrifying and possibly glorious, and possibly both. What I came to learn, through Laura, is that my marriage/divorce is only a small part of the puzzle of why I feel stuck, undervalued and prone to listening to critical voices that have been following me for years. Oh my god, I did not know I was going to go there with Laura! I thought we were going to talk about divorce! So far in my time with her, we haven’t much talked about divorce or how much of a jerk my husband is, or my lawyer will be, etcetera. Without wasting even a single moment, Laura systematically helps me uncover (and debunk) all the reasons I’m settling for less than I need, want and deserve. After only a few sessions, Laura has helped me see that I’m like the person clinging to the wave-beaten detritus for fear of drowning when the island paradise is only a few yards away. I just have to let go and swim! One more thing… Laura specializes in divorce but I think anyone dealing with life’s challenges (be it divorce or something else) can benefit from working with her. She is a truly talented and practical coach. She has high expectations of you and I think you will have higher expectations of yourself after even a few sessions.” — Teresa
“I found my time spent with Laura some of the most useful and productive things I have done for myself. It was a gift to myself to invest in coaching with Laura. My issues and problems didn’t change but yet I found new answers and new approaches to my lifelong struggles. I am certainly not done but enjoy living a more authentic life than I ever have.” — Joann
“Laura has been a wonderful guide and coach helping me navigate through my very stressful, roller coaster of a divorce. She gets right to the point in focusing her questions on what you really need to look at. I highly recommend Laura’s guidance in any horrible divorce situation you may have to go through.” — Marilyn
“I lived in a state of confusion for years. A few sessions with Laura & my world starting seeing clarity. You owe it to yourself to be coached; no reason to go through it alone.” — Liz
“Laura helped me change some of the behaviors that limit my personal happiness and cause repeated patterns of conflict with my spouse. She also helped me identify my core values which has helped create a clear path to greater fulfillment in my life.” — Ryan
“If you want to stop the bleeding from the pain, anguish and confusion of being gutted by a narcissist, you can stop it. I found Laura by searching for “divorce coach / narcissist”. She is the right fit for this situation. The free consultation is no joke and not a waste of time – it is real and genuine. It is the exact lifeline I was looking for. Her help, understanding and knowledge of how to put together the skills at the right time for the right issue is clear and evident in your first consultation. My audible.com library is a content list of Help Me Help Me books – How to Survive a Narcissist and all of the top books for dealing with the abuse of NPD. My life was gutted two years ago and I am still crawling out. I was closeted, unknowingly by my husband of 18 years. As he built a separate agenda of hooking up and exploring his sexual identity, I was losing my life, not knowing what the problem was in our marriage but keeping devoted to my vows. Finally I found his porn addiction, hook ups and lost or hidden money. I found I was a survivor and learned about the Straight Spouse Network. Rebuilding my life at 61 and anxious to get back to thriving again with my creativity, I then found Laura. The caring confidence and skills she offers make me begin to see how I can gain control of this closure and focus on a new beginning. I feel in my heart and know I can thrive again. She is caring, and focused and she’s your road ahead – she can give you the tools you need no matter where you are in this process. She is a real person helping you survive the damage of a fake person. Just what I was hoping to find. Her website, tools, organized manner and concise communication is outstanding.” — Amy
I help professionals successfully navigate DIVORCE …
by stepping into LEADERSHIP and using it as a springboard for POSITIVE CHANGE.
Self-limiting beliefs associate disruptive change with chaos. And yet, the only constant in life is change … meaning there will ALWAYS be chaos. Achieving personal and professional success requires you to step into LEADERSHIP and achieve true mastery over yourself and your actions … regardless of the chaos around you. Leadership equals resilience in the face of change. And from this place, you will impact the world around you … based on what you are creating from within. And THAT is the impact I want to help you create.